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What are Roadmen?

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Confusedbymodernlife · 19/05/2022 22:50

Can anyone explain what roadmen are, with respect to teenage lads? Are they violent or just harmlessly role playing?

The reason I ask is that I was out walking on a quiet path and encountered a group of male youths blocking my path. Dressed in black and wearing masks. Scared the shit out of me, so I dived into a housing estate and tried to lose them.

Thought I’d seen the back of them, but turned a corner to head home and came across 2 of them. They saw me, changed direction and followed me! I ran for my life, hid in some bushes and called someone to pick me up. I was quite rattled by it, probably because I was mugged before and it brought back memories.

A parent at school has said they sound like the roadmen. They roam around striking up conversations with people and have their own way of speaking- I’ve googled and none the wiser. I have seen kids riding with hoodies and masks on bikes in daylight, but just thought they were messing around.

We are in a leafy suburb, not exactly an urban gangster setting.

What is this weird cultural phenomenon?

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catsonahottinroof · 19/05/2022 22:53

From what little I know (reading on MN) it mostly applies to the wealthier suburbs in the south of England. It is basically middle class/rich white boys role playing as gangsters/drug dealers.

Arcadia · 19/05/2022 22:54

Yeah they're just the new word for chav really

www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Roadman

bg21 · 19/05/2022 22:55

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

CaptainBeakyandhisband · 19/05/2022 22:56

It doesn’t really matter what they are that’s really aggressive and intimidating behaviour. I’d probably give the non emergency police line a call tbh

CorsicaDreaming · 19/05/2022 22:59

I might be quite wrong here but did their masks look like this? If so it is copying the "Boy with Uke" who actually plays quite melodic songs - seems fairly harmless - and my DS9 is absolutely obsessed with him and really wants to get one of the masks...

But I may be completely barking up the wrong tree here!

images.app.goo.gl/yc5HmtQPnwJfnp2i6

CorsicaDreaming · 19/05/2022 23:01

However a great crowd of them would definitely freak me out too...

DolphinaPD · 19/05/2022 23:03

Ay fam, roadman are a big man ting. Say nuttin, ya get me?

DoItAfraid · 19/05/2022 23:05

@DolphinaPD 🙈🤣

bare · 19/05/2022 23:07

Teen-Speak Translation Thread 2021 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/4122155-Teen-Speak-Translation-Thread-2021

This was an excellent thread.

Wishineverchangedmyname · 19/05/2022 23:07

Ay fam, roadman are a big man ting. Say nuttin, ya get me?
DS...is that you?

Haggisfish3 · 19/05/2022 23:09

🤣 welcome to my world teaching teens! Across an is a teen lad who thinks he is hard with a swagger. Wears a hood pulled up as far as possible. Tried to be intimidating.

LondonQueen · 19/05/2022 23:12

catsonahottinroof · 19/05/2022 22:53

From what little I know (reading on MN) it mostly applies to the wealthier suburbs in the south of England. It is basically middle class/rich white boys role playing as gangsters/drug dealers.

This is my understanding too. I think you were a little out of line to hide in a bush OP.

ObjectionHearsay · 19/05/2022 23:12

Little hooligans/chavs. Think they are 'ard and stuff. Plastic gangster culture.

Hopefully they will grow out of it and not get stabbed by a county lines drug gang 🤷🏻‍♀️

DolphinaPD · 19/05/2022 23:14

Roadmen used to be shotters but now it's spread to middle class kids so you probably ain't gonna get shanked but you never know 🤷‍♀️

KarmaComma · 19/05/2022 23:15

The teens in my middle class town think they're roadmen. They'd cry if they came across any of the kids I taught.

DolphinaPD · 19/05/2022 23:19

I think it depends what ends you are in tbh, as to what level of roadman you have encountered.

DolphinaPD · 19/05/2022 23:20

A Chiswick 'roadman' is going to be a completely different kettle of fish to a Tottenham roadman, for example.

Confusedbymodernlife · 19/05/2022 23:28

Thanks for the education everyone.

I won’t feel scared if I cross their paths again, but still intimidating. Weird way to get their kicks.

My god modern life is rubbish. Middle class kids in my day were harmlessly smoking weed and listening to indie music. Not role playing ganstas.

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Thehonestybox · 19/05/2022 23:29

I think MN seems to have it wrong. Roadmen are the drug dealing youth. County lines gang boys aged 14-18.

They wear black puffa jackets in the winter. And you are most likely to encounter them riding e-scooters down inner city roads at 3am on a Tuesday on deliveries because they're too young to own a car.

Georgeskitchen · 19/05/2022 23:29

Never heard of this but it sounds intimidating

Confusedbymodernlife · 19/05/2022 23:34

@Haggisfish3 I feel for you!

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Confusedbymodernlife · 19/05/2022 23:36

@ObjectionHearsay plastic gangsters! 🤣 Let’s hope they don’t meet any real ones

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Northernsoullover · 19/05/2022 23:39

They speak a whole new language. All I know is you have to end every sentence with 'still' if you want a good giggle Google Peppa Pig roadman.

Confusedbymodernlife · 19/05/2022 23:39

@bare great thread - thanks. I have young children and clearly live a sheltered life!

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doorfram · 19/05/2022 23:42

A Chiswick 'roadman' is going to be a completely different kettle of fish to a Tottenham roadman, for example.

True dat!

The teens in my middle class town think they're roadmen. They'd cry if they came across any of the kids I taught.

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