Abuse?

[Costacoffeeisbetterthansex]

I’m going out of my mind here… is constant lying, ignoring and refusing to pay back money kind? I’ve been told this morning that it’s all In my head and I’m the bad person. For context this is my 22 year old son

Stop lending him money and kick him out he is an adult.

@ReacherMargrave

Stop lending him money and kick him out he is an adult.

He’s going to his Dad who encourages all of this.

Gaslighting - how much does he owe you and is he normally this type of man?

Stop lending him money, as a pp said.

And have a very blunt chat with him. Make it clear, any more lying or ignoring you, and he will go and live with his dad permanently.

If you still wash his clothes, or buy his beer/toiletries etc, stop that too. It's time he grew up.

Does his dad live with you?