How do you stop them bloody fucking bickering all the fucking time?? 5 and 14 years so huge age gap. They seem unable to ignore each other. Neither of them seem able to disengage. I'm not doing love bombing or anything else - I am a good, calm mum and they have a good life of love and privilege. I rarely/never shout. I'm at my wits end now. I just need a big fuck off consequence for the pair of them
Please!!