Husband talking to other women

[Boobaloob]

How do you find out if your husband is talking to other women.... on here ??

Like a pp said, I don't think a bloke is going to get much joy from trying to chat a woman up from here.

@QforCucumber

Is there a problem with your husband speaking to women who aren’t you?

Not at all, but when they are secretive about their phone and acting distant. Maybe I'm just insecure

@MrsElijahMikaelson1

Do you mean he is on a thread or he is DMing other MNetters?

I don't know his user name, he isn't the kind to comment on a thread but maybe dm

@KenAdams

He's just commenting on a post then?

I wouldn't know tbh as I don't know his username but he's being very secretive with his phone. But makes out I'm insecure

@Bunty55

I have a feeling he is on here and she is trying to find out what his username is?

No I'm not like that

I don't know his user name, he isn't the kind to comment on a thread but maybe dm

But you said you saw the title of the thread. So obviously he did comment.

He may have, but I wouldn't know. He's being very odd lately and being distant with me

@Boobaloob

He may have, but I wouldn't know. He's being very odd lately and being distant with me

If he is being odd and distant I am 99% sure it's not because he is chatting to women on mumsnet

So you say he's on here & he's controlling yet you post here talking about him.

Do you think for your safety it's best you didn't ?

I don't even know how he heard of Mumsnet, he's very controlling. And I really don't know what to do

You are the controlling one if you’re trying to find out your husbands username.

You could easily be a controlling husband trying to find out their wife’s username to see what posts she’s making.

Either way it’s very controlling and you need to stop.
It’s not ok to go through someone phone/tablet.
Your partner will not be chatting up other women/men on here.

There are a million dating sites to do that - Mumsnet isn’t one of them.
It’s ok for partners to use mumsnet without their partner knowing.

Any bloke sending a DM to someone on here trying to chat them up would be reported to MNHQ, blocked & banned. This isn't a hook up site.

@iklboo

Any bloke sending a DM to someone on here trying to chat them up would be reported to MNHQ, blocked & banned. This isn't a hook up site.

This.

Could he be on here watching you and what you post? rather than chatting up another woman! Has he seen you on here before on your phone? Is he the sort to not trust you?

Are you ok?

@danni0509

Could he be on here watching you and what you post? rather than chatting up another woman! Has he seen you on here before on your phone? Is he the sort to not trust you?

Are you ok?

Not really, he's being very secretive. I'm not calling him a bad person, but I have to walk on egg shells not knowing his mood we have kids too. I love him but so depressed right now