DD (3.5) starts full time school in September so I’m thinking of options for wraparound care. DP and I work in opposite directions - both have approx 30 minutes commutes. She currently attends nursery near my work from 8am-5.30pm and I do all drop offs and pick ups. DP does shift work and this is the most sensible option (he prepares our dinner for when we get home). DD currently has dinner at nursery.
I’m torn between wraparound school care and a childminder. We only need term time. Things I like about school care are that she’d only go to one place each day which has worked well so far with nursery, and is possibly more reliable as less likely to be affected by staff illness / holidays. I’m concerned about the hours though - they’re open 7.30am-6pm which in theory should be fine but would be cutting it fine on the night I have my meeting, and if DP was on a late shift and couldn’t get her. After school club also don’t do dinner so we’d have to sort that once home which would mean eating much later than she’s used to.
I wonder if a childminder might be better as hours might be more flexible (not especially late - just 6.30 ish) I’d be more than happy to pay for extra hours to cover us. Also, wonder if it might be more relaxing in a home environment for her. Do childminders give dinner if requested? Again would be happy to pay extra or provide food.
Would be grateful for any opinions or ideas I’ve not thought of. Nursery has worked so well and I’m feeling very anxious about all the changes we need to make.