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Hot date ... lunch ideas please

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thesnailandthewhale · 20/02/2022 13:18

So there's a super hot guy I hook up with from time to time, usually I go to his for an evening however tomorrow he is coming to mine for the first time and it will be for a few hours daytime (approx 10.30 - 2.30).

Time is usually pretty much just spent in the bedroom but as he'll be here over lunch I'm thinking I need some food ideas in case he gets hungry. We could order a pizza but I think I ought to have something here to offer. I don't want to look too try hard but a miserable cheese sandwich isn't going to cut it either. Help!

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bettertocryinamercedes · 20/02/2022 13:21

Tiger bread, cheese, pate, chutney, grapes!

CrumpetStrumpet · 20/02/2022 13:24

Does he lay on food for you when you visit his?

Because if the answer is no then don't feed him anything. He's already getting you on a plate, no need to feed him as well!

thesnailandthewhale · 20/02/2022 13:32

@CrumpetStrumpet ... when I go to his its normally around 7/8pm so I've already eaten dinner. We sometimes share a bottle of wine :)

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RosieGuacamosie · 20/02/2022 13:34

Surely he should be laying on lunch for you?!

thesnailandthewhale · 20/02/2022 13:40

I like the tiger bread / cheese / grapes option, nice but not too much effort and I will happily scoff it for dinner when he's gone if it doesn't get used :)

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CrumpetStrumpet · 20/02/2022 13:41

@thesnailandthewhale well there's your answer then. He's not giving you any special treatment. Sometimes sharing a bottle of wine doesn't count. Is he laying on nibbles, nice box of chocolates? Nope.

He's a hook up. Arranging nice food for him is a boyfriend privilege. Never give more to a man than hes giving to you. The sex is more than enough.

bettertocryinamercedes · 21/02/2022 18:03

Hope you had a lovely afternoon and the food went down well.

Only on mm can you ask for lunch ideas and get a hard time over if you should provide food or not!!! 😂

thesnailandthewhale · 21/02/2022 18:10

Thank you, yep a lovely time was had by all :) :)
Glad it wasn't just me who found it a bit odd that posters didn't think I should offer any food, I would provide food for anyone visiting over lunchtime whether I have sex with them or not :) :)

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