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Turning down job offers?

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loupiots · 16/02/2022 19:47

What made you decide to back out? Did you trust your instinct?

I’ve been offered a job but I’m unsure about it. I got very poor vibes from the interview, (didn’t click with someone on the panel who I would be working with closely), and I’m not particularly pleased about getting the offer - quite surprised, really.

It’s a big company and I’ve heard some negative feedback as well as, tbf, good things.

I do feel like trusting my gut - don’t want to be stuck trying to make a go of something that’s potentially toxic. Confused

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girlmom21 · 16/02/2022 19:53

Definitely trust your gut. I turned down a job offer because the interviewers were incredibly formal and didn't smile at all and I didn't want to work with people who couldn't smile, let alone laugh!

doublechocolatedigestives · 16/05/2023 13:08

So glad I found this. I've got the same dilemma and thankfully after reading this I'm definitely going to decline the offer

fruitbrewhaha · 16/05/2023 13:09

Of course you should trust yourself. An interview is a two way street, you are also working out if you’d like to work there.

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Bluevelvetsofa · 16/05/2023 14:51

I’ve been in a similar situation and told them that I didn’t think the ethos would fit with mine.

billyt · 16/05/2023 15:13

I've turned down two job offers since Christmas. Both times from people at companies I've worked with on projects recently. And no formal interviews required for either.

Both times I said it didn't work for me at the moment. One said, fine no problem. Second one said, fine but can we have another chat in a month or so.

To be honest, unless they are desperate to get YOU on board I doubt they'll give it too much thought.

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