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Gem8701 · 11/02/2022 12:11

Hi.. So im currently seeing my ex who i love and adore. We only broke up because it turned into friends. We have a daughter together. When we broke up i met someone else who i got into a relationship, things ended in November and me and ex started chatting and meeting up. He's lovely bit said he doesn't know if wants to get back together, meanwhile the other guy i was with has said he wants us to be together - makes a lot more effort then ex and is lovely. My question is do i stick things out with ex in hope we get back together or do i try with other guy who seems to really want to date, keeps asking me out, offers to do things for me etc. X

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IsDaveThere · 11/02/2022 13:22

He's an ex for a reason, plus he has already said he's not sure whether he wants to get back together. So no, I don't think you should stick things out.

Same with the other guy. You also split up with him for a reason.

ABCeasyasdohrayme · 11/02/2022 13:30

Take some time to yourself for a while.

It doesn't have to be a choice between two men, being single is an option too.

ShirleyPhallus · 11/02/2022 13:32

Bin them both off. You want to be with the one who doesn’t want you; and the one who does want you, you don’t want to be with.

Learn how to be happy on your own again

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