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Nontransfer · 02/02/2022 18:15

I had a nice evening with a long term acquaintance on Saturday. It wasn't a date, but we were both definitely behaving like single people with some flirting, although just a friendly pecknat the end of the evening.

Next day his ex has tagged him in a post making it very clear they spent the day together at his house. Which is fine, I shall step well back and leave them to it. However, he's saying they're just friends and as we are too, do I want to go out again next weekend?

I think he might believe they're keeping it friends, but she made that post because she wanted everyone to know they were together!

He's someone I enjoy spending the occasional night out with when we're at a lose end, it would be a shame to lose his friendship, but I'm really not in the market for unecessary drama.

So, do I go?

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Nontransfer · 02/02/2022 19:26

Is that a no? Grin

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PPCD · 02/02/2022 19:38

He's not worth your energy. Find someone better.

Nontransfer · 02/02/2022 19:40

I agree, I've got no intention of giving him any energy. I'd already decided there was nothing in it romantically, but he is convenient for a fun night out now and again.

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