can I have thoughts? Basically I am seeing a guy who currently lives with his ex-girlfriend, and her mother. this arrangement was before we started seeing each other, but it makes me feel really uneasy. He swears blind there’s nothing going on; he’s only living with her to save up money for a house. He says they broke up seven years ago, but we all know that romantic ceilings can linger at any time. He also admitted he sometimes ‘chills’ in her room with her. this makes me feel uncomfortable and I’m thinking of breaking it off. He didn’t admit all this to me until about a month into seeing each other.