Is anyone awake?

[Amandasummers]

I could do with talking down

I am, what’s up?

Yes, what's up?

What's wrong?

You ok? X

Hello!

Also awake

I’ve been an idiot and let my recent ex who I love to death into my bed, and have now found out he has lied to me again. Feel such a fool

Is he still with you?

I had an ex like that. I sincerely wish I didn’t waste 6 years of my precious life on him.

Don’t waste your time on this loser

Oh yes and if he’s still there kick him out!

Oh dear

The thing to do is not show him you are hurt, so your least preserve some dignity.

If he is still there, wake him at six, say really sorry but I need you to go, and keep it together until he has gone.

Don’t worry- just say to yourself ‘no more’ easier said than done and then get him up and get rid! Then it’s on your terms now.we all make mistakes-you’re a human being x

Deep breaths and carry on. Reframe this as 'Happy sex with someone familiar but won't be doing it again', put on a bright and breezy manner and shoo him out of your life.

How are you feeling right now? Pretty rubbish that he lied to you, I'd guess, else you wouldn't have posted. That's not love, and that's not how love should make you feel. When he wakes, ask him to leave. Look after yourself.

Everyone makes mistakes. Get rid of him and draw a line under it.

Why do they fucking do it though 😢

@Amandasummers

Why do they fucking do it though 😢

Because they are shits.

Don't go down this rabbit hole, focus on why you do what you do.