To end it now?

[Majoritycustody]

I'm a single mum with depression. Being seeing someone for 8 weeks been getting close but I haven't tols him about depression I'm reducing anti depressants so feeling crap. I just feel like I should end it now and save us the hassle?

Hi op, sorry to hear you’re feeling crap. How’s the relationship been going up until now? What’s the reason behind decreasing the anti depressants?

Relationship good. I want to reduce them as they affect my memory. I've tried allsorts and the side effects are bad from them so I want to go without

Im just in a bad mood today lol

Ok, that would be a shame to end the relationship at this point then if it’s been good. Did your gp give you any advice about how to reduce the medication in the best way for you?
One option could be to talk to your partner and explain what’s happening? Does anything else help stabilise your mood? Time outside? Exercise? Food? Etc maybe

@Majoritycustody sorry that you are feeling that way. I've been having low mood for ad long as I can remember and only realised in the lat two year that I have low iron and low vitamin d. Now I take high doe of both and no long feel depressed or have the low moods. Please check your levels.

Have you got any other support around you while you're reducing the dose? That can really help you when you're getting used to the lower doses and the mood changes that come with it. It's not easy but it's good to reach out.

I take vit d and iron. I don't want to tell him ive got depression

Truly tell him I told my DH very early stages and he was so lovely with it, don't end something goof for this reason.