Help?!?!?!

[Luluu123]

My partner of 9 years has told me a teenage child has come forward and said he is his dad! We have 3 children of our own, am I wrong for not wanting this child involved?? Dna has been done waiting for the results.

Stop being selfish, they could grow up to have a great sibling bond. You cant deny a relationship because its not been conventional.

There's a definite chance that it's the boy himself who wanted to contact his dad in this case, it doesn't sound like his mum is driving this.

With regards to your children, depending on their age and the severity of their disabilities, you could introduce the boy as a friend or similar at least at first.