My dream has always been to live in my own home - just renting would be fine. I grew up in a really dysfunctional family, suffer from anxiety and absolutely crave quiet and privacy. (I'm not a hermit, quite social in fact, but need a safe space). Despite working hard and earning an OK salary in a 'professional' career, I'm unable to afford either. I'm mid 30s and can only afford a room in a flat share which is really getting me down. To rent a very basic, not particularly nice studio/1 bed flat in an undesirable area that's nearish to my work and friends would be almost three quarters of my monthly salary.
Would love to hear from people who rent or own alone... seems like many people manage it. How do you afford it? Where do you live and how much does your home cost to run per month in relation to your income?