Been married for over 14 years now and i have 3 kids. Marriage has always been a struggle for us. My husband works 7 days and has 2 jobs. For past 5 years, it feels like we are living our own lifes in the same house. I am sure both of us want divorce but the finincial impact will be too much. What shall i do? I started dreaming of a single life and i am sure he is thinking the same. Feel calm and relaxed when he isn't in the house.