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Why do some men do this? (Dick pics)

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AquaEyes · 13/05/2021 07:16

I've been talking to someone off of a dating app for a while and it was going brilliantly, we had a lot in common and had just arranged a first date to a popular theme park.

He then preceded to ask me personal questions about sex which I told him that I didn't feel comfortable but he was persistent and that was all he wanted to talk about. This was a complete change in personality and I began to feel uncomfortable.

Without any reason or warning I received a picture of just his junk fully erect, no message behind it literally just that.

I told him that I felt like he was only after one thing and that's not what I'm looking for and he has called me countless time which I have ignored.

It's put me off online dating as I thought he was a good guy.

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Rainbow321 · 13/05/2021 20:42

I've never received a dick pic ( thankfully ) but if I were to receive one I would see it as an insult and would block immediately.

thelegohooverer · 13/05/2021 20:45

My question is: do they actually think that it’s a turn on? There are many parts of a man’s body that I might, in the right circumstances, like to see a picture of, but dick pics are just grim
maybe that’s just me

LittlestBoho · 13/05/2021 20:52

It is basically flashing and it should be illegal.

Do you know where he works? Message his employer either on LinkedIn or via their website 'contact us' form, tell them that their employee is sending unsolicited dick pictures to women and say you don't think it reflects well on their company.

These deviants need to be hit where it hurts: Real Life.

nothingcanhurtmewithmyeyesshut · 13/05/2021 20:53

Oh look! It's like a dick but miniature. Teacup penis.

DenisetheMenace · 13/05/2021 20:55

Today 20:45 thelegohooverer

My question is: do they actually think that it’s a turn on? There are many parts of a man’s body that I might, in the right circumstances, like to see a picture of, but dick pics are just grim
maybe that’s just me“

This, exactly. I mean, they’re functional, obviously, but, generally speaking, things of beauty they ain’t.

Purplealienpuke · 13/05/2021 21:03

Awe, how did you lose your thumb nail? Looks painful.

Block.
Job done.

ThatLibraryMiss · 13/05/2021 21:05

A woman called Sarah-Louise Jordan wrote a brilliant letter to the sender of a surprise dick pic:

Dear Sir,

Thank you for the unexpected and unsolicited submission of your penis portrait for our consideration. We regret to inform you that it has failed to pass our most basic standards of quality control at this time.

It goes on - full text here.

SirenSays · 13/05/2021 21:27

I've tried soo many tactics over the years!

As a teen I used to warn people that if they sent me one I'd forward it to their parents. I never actually did this, but it was a good threat lol.

I've also shared the pics with my friends in group chats so we could have a giggle... the senders got off on the shame of that.

When I was regularly using dating sites I had a collection in my secure folder. Whenever I'd get a new one I'd add it and send them back the last one I got.
They also get really embarrassed if you ask about how many tries it took to get That photo.

The "Tributes" are worse than the standard dick pics!!!!

It's not just men either, I've had women send pics like this!

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