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2 year old hates a particular doll!

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stillsleeptraining · 06/04/2021 11:11

I know this isn’t the end of the world, but I would like some advice on what the “best” approach to the situation would be.

My 2 year old really likes an older looking Baby Born doll (Lila) and involves her in play. He’s less interested in the baby dolls, but they can play too. But he absolutely loathed the boy Baby Born (Ben) his grandparents got him. I mean - if this doll was a real boy, my son would properly be bullying him. He throws him on his head, kicks him, excludes him from playing with the other toys and won’t let him join in. He’s really mean to him!

It’s funny, but at the same time, a big part of the reason he want him to play with dolls is to practice kindness and empathy. Not to learn to be a bully.

Any tips?! If he hurts Ben, we give Ben attention and cuddles etc. But I’m not sure what to do about Ben being excluded from playing.

Should I just put Ben in a cupboard or use it as a learning opportunity?

OP posts:
EveWasReframed · 07/04/2021 14:43

I'd probably have helped my DC bury Ben under the patio tbh, but I always found parenting a very strange affair.

MrsCaptainJakeBallard · 07/04/2021 14:45

I don't know if this is serious or not 😂 but yes Ben should just be binned. Kids are afraid of the weirdest things some times.

catpoooffender · 07/04/2021 14:47

Naughty step should not be used for 'hurting' a doll. Unless he is using it as a weapon to hurt someone else or break household objects!

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