What really scares you?

[JackieakaBritney]

Not phobias, things like the below

For me

This

And this

Really random one, but gravity stopping.
Death, what happens
Breaking down (that's just anxiety though)
Dementia
Losing someone I love.

Dying before my kids are grown up, definitely.

That lockdown will never end and il never see a naked man in real
Life again

If I ever had to be on my own. Loneliness really scares me.

Loads of stuff scares me, I’m a wuss. All of the death stuff and things to do with jobs and money that have already been mentioned. Plus driving anywhere on a busy motorway e.g M6 and driving to places I don’t know, especially if I have to take the big car. It gives me real anxiety.

Getting dementia. Well actually even more scary is DM and/or DH getting it.

Or dying in a fire.

I'm late 60s and I'm scared of dying before my youngest daughter has her first child. I remember how much my mum helped me.

Death doesn't scare me

Dementia scares me, after watching my mum suffer from it the thought of DH and dd having to go through what my me and my siblings did would destroy me.

Sometimes when I allow my thoughts to go here, the thought that my dd is not resting at peace scares me. It's something that haunts me to be honest.

Getting Dementia
My kids dying

Prion diseases

My mum and dad dying or being so ill they want to die.

That eventually the people I love will see me the way that I see myself.

Death
Incurable illness
Losing those I love

My children (they are mid 20s now) ending up with unhappy lives.
Becoming vulnerable

Chimps. They just freak me out, I hate them.

Oh, I’ve just looked at the previous answers and now mine seems a little frivolous. I was thinking of things outside the normal death, pain etc like something that scares me for no real reason.

@Kanaloa I feel the same about cats. I hate going to my sil because they have a cat.

@LookAtWhatYouCouldHaveWon

That eventually the people I love will see me the way that I see myself.

That's really sad- your loved for a reason