To my ex - I am so unhappy I could... I'm the dependable one. I go shopping for my parents. And yours too, even though we broke up 10 years ago. I buy the uniform and the shoes. I organise play dates and do all of the school admin, including booking your parents evening appt. I'm even a school governor! I gave up my career because when we split up I couldn't be a full time parent and do my job because you couldn't commit to picking up. And now I am mid 40s, on UC, running around liker a crazy person