NC for this...
Ive noticed a change in my DP recently, we have a shared phone contract (both our phones on the same contract, so i can actually see who he texts/rings, this was his idea when we got together, not mine, and i didn't actaully realise until recently this meant we could see who we are contacting)
Last night he was texting a number until late.. i asked him who it was this morning - in the context of his mentioned his mother and said I assume that's who you were messaging until late, he said no, and blamed a mutual friend.
I know this isn't mutual friends number.
Ive saved the number that hes been texting on my phone but obviously cannot text or ring it without it appearing on my phone bill. Whats app doesn't show a picture or any additional information..
I know people will be along to say "dont trust him, dont be with him..." etc, but financially we are in big trouble, and im trying to get my ducks in a row and make plans. Its hard but if I find something concrete (ie. He lying about messaging a woman, or him making his break to go) i want to forward plan to look after myself and DC. One step ahead so to speak...
How do i find out who the number belongs to? If i cannot call or text it myself? I've tried searching the number?
My spidy senses are tingling....