Ok so I get that everyone is different but for me, before I even meet someone, I don't want to spend ages/every day talking to them.
Example, if we've chatted a bit and set a (first) date for the following Saturday (say this is the prior monday) - I dont want to be greeted by 'good morning' messages every day until then xD let alone hear/have to give them a blow by blow account of my day as the day goes on.
I mean fair enough if we've met aready and there's a spark...infact,no, probably not even then lol xD
But I've noticed this seems to be the trend these days. Perhaps it should be flattering but... ugh... lol.
And I'm never really sure how to say 'sorry, but can we just talk when I see you' without sounding like an ice queen xD
I'm just a bit worried that when we meet we don't like eachother and then it'll be more awkward. Like it puts unnecessary pressure on things...
Anyone else successfully navigated?
And am I right in thinking it just seems to be what ppl do these days? (Talking every day between dates).
First world problems lol