So my partner and I have been together little over a year and recently moved in together.
I've noticed some pretty drastic behaviour from him over the past 3 months...
For example, totally depressed, not having any motivation he just feels sad all the time and even told him he feels suicidal! This was very scary to hear! this can last for a weeks weeks then days like today where hes up early jumping around the house pulling everything out and erratically cleaning and scrubbing even singing just a completely different person!!
He also gets very moody suddenly and very rude and upsetting saying he wants space and his house back yet when I say okay I going to back to my mums he becomes very upset and doesn't seems to know what he wants.
He also has weeks where he doesn't want any sexual contact and this makes me feel like shit because I feel hes not attracted to me.
Basically I just dont know what to do is this normal behaviour?
I dont know how to deal with this I am trying my best to be patient but as you can imagine it's very emotional and upsetting for me, when hes in his moods is has absolutely no regard for how I feel.
I love him very very much but I dont know how to cope myself?
Does anyone have any advice?
Thanks x