Messaged the guy I have a crush on and he’s messaged back!

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I’m nearly 3 years out of a crappy 11 year relationship. I’ve had a crush for the past month on someone I hardly know. I told my pals over a drunken zoom quiz tonight and they’ve encouraged me to message him out of the blue. I’ve done it! We’ve been sending chatty m, flirty

** flirty banter messages all night and I’m hoping we’ll meet up in the not too distant future. I know I sound like I’m 15 years old and there’s a chance it won’t come to anything but I’m so pleased. Wish me luck. X

Ohhhh good luck!!!

Enjoy

Thanks. It’s so lovely feeling hopeful and excited after all this time. He just seems the total opposite to my ex. Friendly, caring, fun, open. I don’t want to get too excited so even if it doesn’t go very far, I feel good about myself right now and that’s great.

Good luck OP. It's so exciting when this happens. I did similar 20 months ago. He's now asleep in my bed.

Good luck and good on you for making a move, so to speak. You have everything to gain and nothing to lose by making the first contact.