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HELP ADVICE NEEDED! Scared of miscarriage again.

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Mammy2twoxox · 27/05/2020 09:25

Hi girls, I’m just wondering if anyone has had anything similar or advice.
I’ve just found out last week I’m pregnant again. 5+ and I miscarried about 4/5 months ago.
This pregnancy feels different to the last one from sore boobs and more tired etc... but the past few days I’ve been having a lot of pain as if it’s my bladder (I’m not sure) all I can describe the pain as if I’ve needed a really big wee and held my bladder so so long but I don’t need the toilet and it’s constantly there. Is this normal or is there a chance I may be miscarrying again?
Please all advice is appreciated, Thank you

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JaneyGotAGun · 27/05/2020 09:42

Have you told your Dr you're pregnant? Could be a UTI which needs treatment as the pain is in your bladder.

I completely get your anxiety though- I had a miscarriage before I got pregnant with my dd and it does make you more worried Flowers

Mammy2twoxox · 27/05/2020 10:33

Yeah I have told them, I’m waiting for a telephone appointment so fingers crossed everything is fine. Thank you so much for your reply it means a lot especially when people around me don’t realise what I am going through as they’ve not been through it. It’s the scariest thing in the world, can I ask? How did you cope with your anxiety and thoughts throughout your pregnancy?

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JaneyGotAGun · 28/05/2020 09:47

Sorry for late reply. Glad you got a telephone appt with your Dr.

Regarding coping with anxiety during pregnancy, just taking one day at a time and the further along I got the more relaxed I became. Once you've seen your midwife at your booking in appt around 8 weeks you can tell them about your feelings of anxiety.

I also booked an early private scan around 8 weeks as I didnt want to wait until the 12 week NHS scan.

Best of luck

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