Tell me what I want for my birthday!

[Gruffalosandbuffalos]

After having 3 year old DS and 11 month old DD I am struggling with my identity a little. I haven’t bought clothes or items for myself in ages and as it’s my birthday coming up I’ve been asked what I would like- but I just don’t know!

Can I have some ideas please? I have think of a million things I would like to buy the kids, but nothing for myself.

Shopping vouchers
Nice haircut
Spa treatment
Experience- theatre, adrenaline type thing depending on what you like?
Craft items if you enjoy that sort of thing and have an evening (depends on little ones sleep)
Perfume
Posh chocs
Meal out/cinema +babysitting

Oddly, I'm hoping for a roof mounted cycle rack for my birthday, not sure that's everyone's idea of a good present though!

I got a mini sprocket printer that works over Bluetooth from my iPhone
I love it
Prints are 2 ins by 3 ins

You need one of these op

I've asked to have 'my colours' (not hair) done for my birthday present this year.
A few friends of mine have had theirs done and now wear colours they had never dreamed of wearing and I can honestly say, they look amazing!

Some great ideas on here already.

Vouchers and a session with a personal shopper - in most places there is no fee for them. They will help you find things you wouldn't try yourself.

A styling session with a personal shopper might be a good idea, help you find "you" again after being caught in the baby bubble.

Just as an aside, I used to to really struggle to think of things that I wanted for my birthday/Christmas, and found it stressful when people asked me. Now I keep a list in my notes and whenever I get a fleeting "oh I'd love that/should pick that up", I jot it down in the list. If I pick it up or no longer desire it, I just delete it.
Mine is mainly books 🙈