Dc1 is 4. Started school in Sept. Eats well, has always been good at the table (apart from when stbxh - his dad - is there)
The last few weeks though, he's been driving me up the wall with messing around at meal times. "Playing" instead of eating. With a narrative usually. More recently, playing about with the food. Today gently scraping the mashed potato with his fork so he gets the tiniest amount on the fork. One pea at a time. His little brother has finished the same meal, plus a yogurt, and fruit and has been sitting for 5 minutes while dc1 has half his meal left.
I'm inclined to give him 5 minutes and remove. I'm sure he won't starve.
How do others deal with this? It's a new one on me.