I need some kind of advice, it all started a few weekes ago when my husband and I were trying being sexual in the bed room everything was great until he couldnt keep it up. Before this we havent had sex in at least 6 months. And this probkem has been an on going problem. He is a heavy drinker and is always falling alseep or having stomach problems (he also has Gastroparesis). I hadnt bothered me because i love him and i understood he was trying to fix his problem.
But i work at a trucking company with a bunch of men and Im always the women that will tell everyone how it is. I worked under this man for at last 6 years and i got transfer because a girl left and i was best qualified. I never had any sexual feelings toward this man until I recently found out his wife of 14 years cheated on him and they are getting a divorce. I felt so sad for him but we have always been able to joke and bullshit and it not be a problem until this happened. Now i feel like i think about him all the time and when we see each other at work we tend to make eye contact from accross an open room or at a random moment. I'm trying to find a way to stop it but it just keeps getting worse.
I love my husband and we are compatible and alike in so many ways and before him i was cheated on my an ex husband and Ive never been that type to cheat. Ive been staying away and trying to not look at the work guy but its not working. Any advise?