Amicably separated 3 years ago. Good co-parenting. Kids ok.
I have removed myself from the sight and the effect of living with a drinker and all is much better. XH not great.
DC are teens and preteens. They started to notice and they started to tell him off and monitor him. This pains me to see it as I know it goes nowhere and causes worry and pain.
But what is there to do?