When in your life have you felt at a crossroads ?

[Lardlizard]

I feel one approaching

Right now! An overwhelming urge to pack up all my shit and run away

I think I’m there now but scared

Yes, trying to make a decision re a relationship, it's impossible.....

I am, I gave up work to look after my Dad in his final weeks and now as my children are adults I am taking chance to change career.

@OddBoots what career are you moving into?

@zippyswife I am not entirely sure yet, I was a nursery nurse but my new job is admin, it's a very junior role but a change. I like to study in my spare time so I am hoping I will find a direction.

Choosing university
Choosing between two roles 600miles apart
Now - I know I want to leave SE and move job, but I'm deciding where and it feels pretty big!

When I turned 30. I looked at my life and thought, "is this where I thought I'd be at 30? Is this where I want to be at 40?" The answer to both questions was no, so I did something about it. That was over 20 years ago and I'm so pleased that I made the decisions I did.

Right now. I retired a month ago . Up to now it has felt like being on holiday, but now Christmas is over. I am feeling a bit like a rabbit inthe headlights..
However I know that I am fortunate to have been able to leave work, just need to find the new me !