Looks like me and dh are seperating

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Dh and i have been married for 16 years and together 19 years
We have two daughters aged 14 and nearly 11.
Are personality's are fairly different and he has been getting more and more stressed of late.
Our 14 year old dd is soon to be assessed for autism and has been missing loads of school
Which we are finding very stressful!!
He has said that he has had enough and he can't cope anymore and that he wants to seperate!

So sorry to hear that
If it’s a mental health problem...can he see his gp

Autism is not a death sentence.
When my son met my dil she had an autistic son who was 10
He was told that a few years ago, he wouldn’t have been allowed in the house by him
Fast forward a few year..he changed his name to my sons name , calls him dad, they are a the best of pals.

He’s also a brilliant artist. A lovelier, kinder and more polite young man you couldn’t wish to meet.

He can't cope with everything
He is not happy in the marriage anymore
Hates my tattoos and my other habits!
What are our options regarding living ?