How should you feel when someone shows that they like you?

[ThinkingAboutAFringe]

Either romantically or platonically?

I don’t think there’s a right or wrong answer about how you “should” feel.

That’s a really odd question. What’s prompted it?

Is it? Huh.

I'm trying out OLD but I can't read people very well. What I am great at is panicking- so a guy has asked me for my phone number (instead of Tinder) and I'm panicking.

Do you like him? Does the idea of a date with him thrill you? Then give him your number! Talk a few times to get an idea of his character.

There is no "should" with feelings. There is how you feel and how you interpret that. Feelings are there to tell us something. Listen but don't let them dictate every decision. Feelings and reason working together is a better combo.

Do you like him?
Yes, we've chatted for a little bit and he seems funny and kind.

Does the idea of a date with him thrill you?
No, the idea of a date scares the shit out of me.

It sounds like you should just say no then.