To think some people just shouldn't have relationships?

[Gretais]

i think i am one of them people. Nothing ever works out for me. Its either relationship or friendships. I notice things start very intensely then i get frustrated and bored quickly

Well you know why it's going wrong, it's now about breaking the pattern.

It would take a lot of personal honesty. Being conscious of how you are and stopping yourself so you can slow things down.

There are a small number of people who prefer their own company and really don’t want a relationship and are happy as they are and just get in with it. I sense as you have attempted relationships before, you’re not one of those people. Maybe you need to change the sort of person you date?

I think that i get fed up of being an unpaid counsellor, a skivvy etc and start to pull back then these people get rid of me as i dont benefit them