So at the beginning of meeting my ex he stated he wanted to be in my life forever and he loves me and all that cliche bullshit. We even planned to have a baby together which we did I'm now 15weeks +2. So he told me about his self that he had crappie child and all that, he even told me that he went out with 45 women 
which should of been a red flag. And talking about how horrible his exs where. But then a month ago he wanted to change me telling me how to dress and saying I don't like change and he wanted gives us a life style for and the children I have. My only issue with this was he lived in his mother's how which I never judged but her home was filthy and didn't understand what life style he was talking about. He was talking taking me to Paris but his brother said he was broke. I told him that I don't care about if he had money. But three weeks ago he just dumped me telling we were two different people and I don't like change and all I want to be is a mum which is why he wanted break up. He said he ain't seeing anyone so after that I am very confused, and need some clarity advice. Thank you. FYI I never forced him into relationship with him.