I get tired very easily these days. I was perfectly normal at 47. At 48 I got walloped by the menopause & put 2.5stone on having been a size 8/10 all my life. Now at 49, if I do a task like painting a wall or a spot of gardening, I get worn out so quickly. I often need to have a cat nap to rest. Also I ache in a way I've never felt before. If I get up having sat for a while, it takes a moment or two to stretch & be able to stand & walk properly. So I just wondered, has anyone else genuinely sailed through the menopause without effect? (I'm not referring to hot flushes here)