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New in a job and struggling with early trimester post

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Loke1983 · 29/08/2019 07:07

Apologies as never posted before so could barely work out how to post. Not sure if chat is the right place!

I just want some advice on how to deal with my current situation. I started a new job on 15th July, which is also the first day of my lmp and I found our I’m pregnant 2 weeks ago!
The obvious worry is letting my new employer know I’m pregnant considering they have just hired me. I had 2 mmcs last year so I didn’t really want to tell them until later just in case.
But I’m really struggling to concentrate fully and give 100% at work as I’m so tired and the nausea is increasing steadily.
It’s so hard feeling like that with no one knowing why you aren’t doing as well as you’d like to do. Maybe they don’t notice but you feel like they must do.
I also am having appointments at EPAU dut to my history of miscarriage and my first scan is tomorrow. It’s such a nerve wracking time and I’m having to go into work after the appointment.
My boss is a nice guy everyone says he’s supportive but I find him a little guarded and don’t feel comfortable opening up to him just yet as have only known him a month or so.
Don’t know what to do and feel like I’m harbouring a lot of worry about it all.
Also in the middle of a relocation and I’m living in temporary accommodation away from my husband currently which isn’t helping!
Hope you have some advice for me Smile

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