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My confidence is completely on the bones of it's arse

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VioletLeaf · 26/07/2019 17:26

Work night out tonight and I'm dreading it. I'm fat, ugly, boring, old and just meh. Give me some tips to boost my confidence in a hurry. Thank you Flowers

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Atlasta · 26/07/2019 17:34

Sure you are not as ugly and boring as you think. How others see you is a lot different to how we see ourselves.
Have a shower, put on your fav clothes and be yourself. If you relax and smile you will give off a positive vibe and others will be drawn to you.
I personally like to do my make up and spritz my favourite perfume to boost my confidence.
Remember, others there may feel just like you.

hereforyou · 26/07/2019 17:44

You are wonderful the way you are Violetleaf!!
As somebody that suffers hugely with self confidence it is so much easier to see beauty in others. Never compare yourself to anyone else because we all have our own hang ups and flaws.
Have fun being who you are 😊

nearlynermal · 26/07/2019 17:53

Try to get outside your own head and focus outward on other people. Don't listen to your unkind inner critic.

As someone once said, the best way of leaving someone with the impression that you're a brilliant conversationalist is to let them do all the talking. So be interested in them, ask questions.

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