Just that really! I’m in charge of a birthday collection and I am wobbling we know the recipient thinks commenting in London would be a lot more fun if they could use an electric scooter like many people they watch doing just but I also know there is a legality issue! Help - do I buy it or do I give the money and the suggestion that they buy it themselves if they want it? Donors split between those who want to give a physical present on the day and those who don’t mind either way.
What would you do?