I gave my ex from about 8 years ago a lift home tonight (strange series of events let to this) anyway he was reminiscing about our relationship. Not in a creepy way as he is now married with 2 kids but he was talking about how life changing our 8 months together was and that it made him more confident, independent but a little cynical. He said it took him a while to recover from me. Now I was a bit full on at that time (was 20 yo) so was having a good time and not taking life too seriously. Anyway I now cant sleep and am Facebook stalking ex boyfriends wondering how they are and if I have had a profound impact on them?! Anyone else had a similar experience? I'm quite fickle and generally forget about past relationships fairly quickly!