Can any of your 9 yo dc inspire me? She loves clothes (primark, h&m, and Claire's accessories), lego, pokemon, dance, singing, Taylor swift (got her concert tickets last year) and Harry potter. Also becoming more interested in football but not a passion. She got a new bike recently (last two were hand me downs so it felt mean to keep it as a birthday present - regretting my largesse 
) and her cousin's almost new scooter. Got a go kart from santa. She doesn't like actual shopping so a day out spending money in Claire's and primark won't cut it and saves me the misery of doing it. Has books and craft stuff coming out her ears. Don't think I can inflict a kakroke machine on the rest of us and we have an alexa she can take up to her room to dj when friends are over. She has an old laptop that she uses for coding and typing games. Obviously wants a phone and been told a firm no. Family tablet she has limited access to. Dh and I have agreed no personal gaming device (eg switch) as we have xbox/play station in living room.
At this rate I'm going to have to fake amnesia and pretend I don't know who she is or why she should have a present when she wakes up on Saturday... Please help!