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LLCoolKay · 03/03/2019 19:05

Hello. Been married for three years with a child and a dog.
I worked with my husband and it was a slow burner. Everyone said we were great together so I went for it with him.
However for a good while I've been feeling meh. I'm not overly attracted to him. We don't have sex. I don't enjoy spending time with him. Were in separate beds.
Sometimes we go out and have a laugh but them times are few and far between. I'm wondering whether it's worth staying

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BitchQueen90 · 12/03/2019 20:20

I live in a flat with my DS. There's nothing wrong with flats. Hmm

If you want to split, sharing custody is something you will have to get used to. It's hard at first but I always make sure I have something planned when DS is with his dad to keep me busy. Coffee or drinks out with a friend, seeing other family etc.

LLCoolKay · 12/03/2019 20:44

I know there's nothing wrong with flats but id prefer her here with me. I don't know if I'm doing the right thing.

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BitchQueen90 · 13/03/2019 08:26

What does your DH think about everything? Does he want to split?

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LLCoolKay · 13/03/2019 08:45

He doesn't want to split but seems resigned to it. He says that he'll move out but doesn't want to. I did have 2nd thoughts before the wedding like you did

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