Wwyd. My dc 3 and almost 2 were in my garden playing while i did some house work (gates are locked) they came running into the house with crisps. I took them off as i didnt know were thay came from and when i went to the bin with rubbish i heard my neighbour calling my children to the back gate offering more sweets. I asked her to not do this as i dont want them taking sweets from strangers and she should ask me before giving my children things. Iv just now had her adult daughter at my door saying i was out of line and her mum was just being friendly. Wwyd here because i was raised not to take sweets from strangers. I feel she very uncomfortable with her calling my small children over when im not there and giving them treats. Iv also caught her a few times when they are out the front playing trying to open my gate (i padlock it when dc are in garden as we live right next to a busy road) and when i come out she pretends it was a game.