We're very early in the pregnancy game (just 6 wks along). We wouldn't have told anyone about the baby yet except my bil announced his wedding date for next summer and it was 3 days before my due date. Given it's in France and my dh is the best man we thought we should let them know that we have plans that weekend!
They've responded by moving the date back a month but are restricted as they need it to be in the summer holiday for their friends with kids to attend. My dh has thanked them for moving it and said he'll almost certainly be able to go now but me and the baby probably won't. They seem a little put out and we're now wondering if we're being over cautious. This is our first kid so we just can't tell. It's a 10 hour journey each way. Is there any chance the baby and I will be able to go? It should be 4 weeks after the birth but obviously could be way more or less.