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I'm a medical doctor and NHS psychiatrist. AMA

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DoctorDr · 29/07/2026 11:09

NHS pyschiatry (inpatient) with several years experience. Please ask away :)

OP posts:
PixeyandDixey · 30/07/2026 13:25

Lichenrose · 30/07/2026 13:19

@PixeyandDixey
Some of us are finding this thread useful.

Please know that we are aware enough not to blindly trust what we read on social media.

Your constant criticism is derailing the thread and it’s annoying. You’ve made your point now.

No, YOU are smart enough to not blindly follow what the OP is saying, others in their replies show they're not.

Anyway, we have a much welcome Mumsnet warning on the thread now, so we can all move forward and take from the OP's replies whatever you want, with a bit of healthy skeptism.

As you were.

BrendaTheFriendlyHen · 30/07/2026 13:50

Hello @DoctorDr thanks for the AMA. I have a relative who was sectioned for psychosis. Section 2 then 3. Prior to this they were drinking every night, sometimes to excess, sometimes not. They said it was self medicating. On admission, their test results showed liver under distress. Aside from their psychosis, they always had a suspicious personality, inability to take accountability for their actions and preferred to blame others. Also had the attitude that the world was against them etc, and would be prone to angry outbursts. Delusions were all persecutory. Looking back, the psychosis ramped up over the course of a year but in retrospect there have been signs for years of delusional thinking, just less intense.

Since they were discharged, they have returned to drinking most nights. They have been on antipsychotics and SSRIs for coming up to a year. We have concerns that the alcohol will lead to a relapse, but they are not at the point of admitting it's a problem or communicating to family about it. They ignore or shut down any attempts.

I guess my ama is, is this behaviour re alcohol abuse common and does it often lead to relapse? If so, why does it? And is it typical that psychosis can present for years before becoming a crisis? And if so, what is the long term impact of this? They're also not the 'same' person they were before, if that makes sense. Very remote. Thank you.

summitfever · 30/07/2026 13:55

Hand you experience of use of the Flow Headset for depression and would you rate it?

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 14:19

DoctorDr · 30/07/2026 12:37

I did not quality in 2023. Nowhere near. The groupthink and witch hunting is really sad to see on mumsnet. I'm here for casuaul discussion and generalised advice which unfortunately quickly descends into name-calling, accusations and rabbit holes of how old I am or how many years of experience I must have. It's sad to see, especially when it's misinformed.

But you must have done A Levels in 2010 or later if you got an A*

Backedoffhackedoff · 30/07/2026 14:28

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 14:19

But you must have done A Levels in 2010 or later if you got an A*

Maybe she just translated her scores into modern grades

Lichenrose · 30/07/2026 14:29

DoctorDr · 29/07/2026 12:17

Yes I am and I do think that the diagnositic criteria is too broad and that severe dopamine dysfunction from excessive screentime in children / young adults mimics the symptoms of both conditions, often leading to misdiagnosis. ADHD has a lot of 'scope-creep' in which it's starting to include more and more vague symptoms that are normal for a lot of people. Both conditions deserve a diagnosis if valid though and not the same as over-diagnosis which doesn't exist imo

I’m not sure I understand you here.

I think you’re saying that overdiagnosis of autism and ADHD isn’t a thing, but at the same time you’re saying that the effects of too much screen-time etc can cause behavioural symptoms such that ADHD, for example, is misdiagnosed.

But doesn’t that mean in truth that it’s being overdiagnosed? If people don’t really have it, but the way we live our lives today cause behaviours that mimic it, doesn’t that mean that the condition is being mistakenly overdiagnosed?

Surely if people are consistently being misdiagnosed with a certain condition, it means that condition is overdiagnosed?
Or is there something in the definition of these terms that I don’t understand properly?

Thanks, interesting thread.

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 14:32

Backedoffhackedoff · 30/07/2026 14:28

Maybe she just translated her scores into modern grades

I don't really understand. I got 3 As in 1999 and can't translate them into anything as A* didn't exist then.

Backedoffhackedoff · 30/07/2026 14:35

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 14:32

I don't really understand. I got 3 As in 1999 and can't translate them into anything as A* didn't exist then.

Ok well maybe other people are able to do it even though you’re not?

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 14:38

Backedoffhackedoff · 30/07/2026 14:35

Ok well maybe other people are able to do it even though you’re not?

Ok then I have decided that I got 3 A*s because I think that if I did them today that's what I'd get.

Maybe I have just been exceptionally lucky with the psychiatrists I have come into contact with as even the worst of them I can't imagine speaking about patients like that in public.

Backedoffhackedoff · 30/07/2026 14:57

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 14:38

Ok then I have decided that I got 3 A*s because I think that if I did them today that's what I'd get.

Maybe I have just been exceptionally lucky with the psychiatrists I have come into contact with as even the worst of them I can't imagine speaking about patients like that in public.

Speaking What about patients? Telling them they got A*s?!

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 15:01

Backedoffhackedoff · 30/07/2026 14:57

Speaking What about patients? Telling them they got A*s?!

Edited

No, the way she is speaking about people with mental health issues. Thankfully the majority of professionals I have come into contact with have far more compassion for people with EUPD.

Backedoffhackedoff · 30/07/2026 15:20

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 15:01

No, the way she is speaking about people with mental health issues. Thankfully the majority of professionals I have come into contact with have far more compassion for people with EUPD.

So if that’s what you meant why have you started a side quest trying to smoke out lies about a levels? It’s looking… vindictive

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 15:24

Backedoffhackedoff · 30/07/2026 15:20

So if that’s what you meant why have you started a side quest trying to smoke out lies about a levels? It’s looking… vindictive

If you read my original post it was because I was referring to training I provided on behalf of the NHS 15 years ago alongside mental health professionals, which was partly delivered with the aim to reduce stigma surrounding personality disorders.

With the OP saying that she had got an A* it made me think that she might be quite young and had not come across this training (I believe funding was cut for it).

The OP is the one coming across as sounding vindictive. People with EUPD have at worst suffered from extreme trauma, and at best suffered from extreme emotional distress (with the rest somewhere in between).

Backedoffhackedoff · 30/07/2026 15:25

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 15:24

If you read my original post it was because I was referring to training I provided on behalf of the NHS 15 years ago alongside mental health professionals, which was partly delivered with the aim to reduce stigma surrounding personality disorders.

With the OP saying that she had got an A* it made me think that she might be quite young and had not come across this training (I believe funding was cut for it).

The OP is the one coming across as sounding vindictive. People with EUPD have at worst suffered from extreme trauma, and at best suffered from extreme emotional distress (with the rest somewhere in between).

She really doesn’t sound vendictive. She’s started an interesting thread many people are very much enjoying. And it’s being disrupted by a handful of posters who just happen to have eupd

0Thatsplenty0 · 30/07/2026 15:27

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 15:24

If you read my original post it was because I was referring to training I provided on behalf of the NHS 15 years ago alongside mental health professionals, which was partly delivered with the aim to reduce stigma surrounding personality disorders.

With the OP saying that she had got an A* it made me think that she might be quite young and had not come across this training (I believe funding was cut for it).

The OP is the one coming across as sounding vindictive. People with EUPD have at worst suffered from extreme trauma, and at best suffered from extreme emotional distress (with the rest somewhere in between).

It's really, really not the OP who is sounding vindictive on this thread.

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 15:42

0Thatsplenty0 · 30/07/2026 15:27

It's really, really not the OP who is sounding vindictive on this thread.

Just goes to show how much work still needs to be done to reduce the stigma of personality disorders and some other mental health issues.

I had hoped that attitudes were changing, but it seems not. I am glad to not be under mental health services anymore.

Really hard for people to seek help as it is, less help available than ever before. Not surprising how the suicide rate is increasing.

0Thatsplenty0 · 30/07/2026 15:45

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 15:42

Just goes to show how much work still needs to be done to reduce the stigma of personality disorders and some other mental health issues.

I had hoped that attitudes were changing, but it seems not. I am glad to not be under mental health services anymore.

Really hard for people to seek help as it is, less help available than ever before. Not surprising how the suicide rate is increasing.

Your last sentence is incredibly manipulative.

IDasIX · 30/07/2026 15:49

Lichenrose · 30/07/2026 14:29

I’m not sure I understand you here.

I think you’re saying that overdiagnosis of autism and ADHD isn’t a thing, but at the same time you’re saying that the effects of too much screen-time etc can cause behavioural symptoms such that ADHD, for example, is misdiagnosed.

But doesn’t that mean in truth that it’s being overdiagnosed? If people don’t really have it, but the way we live our lives today cause behaviours that mimic it, doesn’t that mean that the condition is being mistakenly overdiagnosed?

Surely if people are consistently being misdiagnosed with a certain condition, it means that condition is overdiagnosed?
Or is there something in the definition of these terms that I don’t understand properly?

Thanks, interesting thread.

Not the OP, of course, but as I understand it overdiagnosis does not mean people are being diagnosed who do not have the condition, rather that diagnosis is made beyond the point at which it is helpful to have the diagnosis.

For example, with a genetic predisposition to certain cancers, over-diagnosis would mean that a person is told of this risk and may take actions which actually reduce quality of life or impact their health in negative ways.

In autism, for example, overdiagnosis might mean that a person or their parents may place limits on what they can do and achieve that they would not if the diagnosis (‘label’) was not applied.

It’s controversial because many people, including medics, think a person has the right to a diagnosis and the decisions that follow.

LathkillDale · 30/07/2026 15:56

banmusk · 30/07/2026 12:30

It seems to me that what used to be regarded as personality types are now labelled personality disorders. So someone who's quite sensitive, gets upset easily is now someone with a mental health problem?

Oh no, the difference between someone over sensitive and easily upset is a world away from EUPD ime! The black and white thinking, the splitting, the numerous attempts at suicide (50 plus), emotional volatility of a whole different magnitude to being over sensitive…..It’s like being on an emotional rollercoaster where one week, you’re the best parent in the world and the next week, the worst!

As my GP said “People with personality disorders cause the maximum emotional chaos in those close to them…”

seanconneryseyebrow · 30/07/2026 16:35

DoctorDr · 30/07/2026 12:37

I did not quality in 2023. Nowhere near. The groupthink and witch hunting is really sad to see on mumsnet. I'm here for casuaul discussion and generalised advice which unfortunately quickly descends into name-calling, accusations and rabbit holes of how old I am or how many years of experience I must have. It's sad to see, especially when it's misinformed.

I did a post like this as I run an autism and adhd assessment service and I wanted to help people, like you. Many many were really grateful but some just derailed it in exactly the same way. It got really nasty and I gave up in the end. Wasn't worth the stress, as I was giving my time - for free - to share my knowledge. Just as you are.

I would remind people here of this. The OP isn't getting paid for this - she is probably a very busy woman who is giving her free time to share her knowledge in the hopes it will help some people. She doesn't have to do that! Its a nice thing to do and should be appreciated.

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 16:52

0Thatsplenty0 · 30/07/2026 15:45

Your last sentence is incredibly manipulative.

You confirm my point about the stigma of EUPD.

seanconneryseyebrow · 30/07/2026 17:04

A stigma is when something isnt true but people are being unfairly judged for something. You last sentence was manipulative. That poster was just highlighting it.

Bluebellsintheforest33 · 30/07/2026 17:06

@PixeyandDixey

Argh!!! Go away!! You are ruining a very interesting thread.

Thank you to the OP for sharing your thoughts and experience with us.

I was diagnosed by a psychiatrist with depression and social anxiety at age 18 after years of low mood etc. This has continued for the last 15 years with no improvement and only worsening. My NHS app says I have 'mild depression and anxiety'. They don't seem to take me seriously. I have suffered for so long, been to a&e twice for suicide attempts etc... how do I get them to take me seriously? They just offer me SSRIs continuously and ive been on most of them at least twice now at different dosages. Nothing has helped. Also my support network ensures I have a good diet, exercise, sleep well and drink water. There seems to be no reason for this neverending depression. 😔

MissConductUS · 30/07/2026 17:07

DoctorDr · 30/07/2026 12:37

I did not quality in 2023. Nowhere near. The groupthink and witch hunting is really sad to see on mumsnet. I'm here for casuaul discussion and generalised advice which unfortunately quickly descends into name-calling, accusations and rabbit holes of how old I am or how many years of experience I must have. It's sad to see, especially when it's misinformed.

Try not to take it too personally. These threads are like a Rorschach Test. How people react to neutral content tells you more about them than it does about the content they're reacting to.

Lots of people, including me, appreciate your good intentions and willingness to share your insights and experience.

ScrambledEggs12 · 30/07/2026 17:09

seanconneryseyebrow · 30/07/2026 17:04

A stigma is when something isnt true but people are being unfairly judged for something. You last sentence was manipulative. That poster was just highlighting it.

Much like manipulation is not actually listed in the DSM criteria for EUPD. That is a view based on stigma.

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