I'm in a sexless marriage by choice. AMA

[SexlessInSussex]

I'll try and answer what I can : )

Has it occurred to you that you may be gay?

This post really resonates with me. Makes me, and my DH, feel like we are not freaks. We have a happy cuddle marriage. Yes, we did have sex a few times as evidenced by having two great kids. In the beginning sex was fairly regular but on the low side of average in terms of frequency. Over time we just outgrew it. We both masturbate [in private e.g. solo]. Its hard to match up the libidos. Plus we are older and things don't work quite like they used to.

I guess you could say we re-invented intimacy. Love, connection, kissing cuddling, no intercourse, no oral.

@RAOK

How long have you been together?

Just over a week. 😂😂