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I had an affair and was the OW

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SttinkyPetee · 26/10/2019 22:24

That's all really. Had a long affair whilst married with a married man

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Waitingforadulthood · 26/10/2019 22:25

Do you feel guilt? Shame? Did you care about what would happen if you got caught?

How would you feel if your husband did the same?

Tailfeather · 26/10/2019 22:27

Did he leave his wife? Did you want him to?

FlowersInThePot · 26/10/2019 22:28

No one really cares love

chipsandgin · 26/10/2019 22:29

Was it worth it. I’m guessing not. Unless you are a sociopath of course?

JaneyJimplin · 26/10/2019 22:30

Do you think you understand the gravity of what you did?

What motivated you?

Was it an ego boost to think he would risk everything to sleep with you?

Mollpop · 26/10/2019 22:30

What's your favourite sandwich filling?

Leafyhouse · 26/10/2019 22:30

How did it end?

NerdyCurvyInkedandPervy · 26/10/2019 22:30

Was it just for the sex?

P1nkHeartLovesCake · 26/10/2019 22:30

Well done for having no morals, why post about it?

It’s not really something to do proud of is it?

StormcloakNord · 26/10/2019 22:31

Did you grow up aspiring to be a cock gobbling home wrecker?

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SttinkyPetee · 26/10/2019 22:34

Do you feel guilt? Shame? Did you care about what would happen if you got caught?

How would you feel if your husband did the same?

Guilt, yes
Shame, no
Cared about what would happen if caught, yes
World be gutted if my husband done the same tbh

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Waitingforadulthood · 26/10/2019 22:35

Op I'm sorry people are feign so revoltingly nasty. This isn't aibu pp. lay off

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SttinkyPetee · 26/10/2019 22:36

Did he leave his wife? Did you want him to?

Yes he did. No I didn't want him to

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Original poster
SttinkyPetee · 26/10/2019 22:37

Was it worth it. I’m guessing not. Unless you are a sociopath of course?

No it wasn't

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AnneLovesGilbert · 26/10/2019 22:39

Are you still married?

chipsandgin · 26/10/2019 22:40

Thought so - never is. Hopefully lesson learnt?

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SttinkyPetee · 26/10/2019 22:40

Do you think you understand the gravity of what you did?

What motivated you?

Was it an ego boost to think he would risk everything to sleep with you?

Didn't understand the gravity of it

My motivation was to escape

Honestly, ego boost was somewhere I there as sad as that is to admit

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chipsandgin · 26/10/2019 22:41

(i.e question being - would you do it again..)

GorkyMcPorky · 26/10/2019 22:41

I'm not sure why you think anyone wants to know, and I don't mean to be unkind.

DaveMyHat · 26/10/2019 22:41

Are you still married to your husband, does he know about the affair? And were/are you having problems in your marriage before/unrelated to the affair?

Original poster
SttinkyPetee · 26/10/2019 22:41

What's your favourite sandwich filling?

Tuna

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HotSince82 · 26/10/2019 22:43

Are you glad it happened?

mamandematribu · 26/10/2019 22:51

Why would you split up a family?? Innocent wife and kids??

Whatwouldbigfatfannydo · 27/10/2019 01:26

Vile Envy

Gingerkittykat · 27/10/2019 01:31

Did your husband ever find out?

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