I was in an open relationship with my partner AMA

[newmummy0094]

I get so many questions from people who knew I was in an open relationship.

I thought it would be fun to see what questions people have.
Ask away!!

Did it fail due to the open aspect?

How do you come when you sleep woth sone one who is "better in bed" . How do you go back ...

Cope

Bloody auto correct

How did you deal with it?... why are you in an option relationship! Do you both have insecurity issues? Bored in the bedroom department?

I don't know how you do it! I would kill my husband if he ever slept with another woman and I can't even think about sleeping with another man when I'm married and sleeping with my husband at the same time.

@sirmione16
No we are till together. And we are expecting our first child.

@Gileswithachainsaw
Luckily for me my partner is very good in bed

@NameChange0000
I don't really get jealous so that helped.
We were in an open relationship because I traveled around the world with work so we didn't spend much time together.
We are really secure in our relationship.
No we were never bored in the bedroom department.

Has the relationship 'closed' now you're expecting a baby? I could never do the open relationship thing.

@KingkillerKvothe
We looked after my niece for a year so I stopped traveling much so we decided to just be us two.

Did you both have a similar number of partners or was one much more active than the other?

Was there ever any jealousy. What rules did you have in place

@ohamIreally
I had more partners.

@Branleuse
There was a bit of jealousy but nothing that bad. It probably made it more interesting.
The rules were that it was only sex nothing more, we only did it when we were apart and we tell each other anything that they want to know.

did it disappoint you when a new lover was worse in bed or had a smaller cock than your partner?

@Branleuse
Maybe a little

Did you tell your other partners that you were in a committed relationship?

What was your agreement wrt sexually transmitted diseases?

Were you allowed to sleep with friends or did they have to be strangers?

@AssassinatedBeauty
We didn't really have partners that we saw more than a couple of times. If they asked I would have told them.

We both got regular std checks and always used condoms.

@Doghorsechicken
If it is mutual friends or close friends we didn't get involved with them but if they were sort of distant friends there wasn't a problem

You say you’ve both decided to be exclusive
What happens if one of you now has a relationship with someone. Would you count that as ‘cheating ‘?
Would that be the end or would you be ok with it ?

@Heatherjayne1972
Yes it would be cheating if we slept with someone else now. I think we probably would break up if that happened.