babysharksmummy yeah if we get on and we feel like we're on the same page then we might see them again if we all happen to be available at the same time. We have four DC. Definitely feel like it's strengthened us as a couple.
BIWI both! Sometimes we go to a club or sometimes we might invite or get invited by a couple on the internet. If we haven't met before we'll meet somewhere neutral like a pub so we can see if we click before going to anyone's home or having anyone back to ours. It's surprisingly easy to get things moving, I thought it would be really awkward but once we're back at theirs or ours, someone will just turn the conversation a bit rude, we'll all have a flirt and it goes from there. If we're at a club we just do our own thing and then other people ask if they can join and you say yes or no thank you.
MaybeDoctor it depends. If we go out for a drink to meet a couple just normal pub attire. If we're going straight to a club and nowhere else then something a bit sexier like a short dress and heels. Most of them do have dress codes and won't let you in if you look like you haven't made an effort.
bellinisurge I don't have any pampas grass, I think it's a myth!
Brandnewshit I won't name the club as I think that might be a bit outing but I will say my favourite one is the most relaxed one. It's just really cosy and friendly inside. A lot of them are all grey and chrome and posh inside like a strip club. This one feels like your local pub. In a good way! Although none serve alcohol - you can bring your own though and they serve soft drinks.
They have changing rooms like a gym, you can hire a locker to put all your stuff in (strictly no phones allowed) and you can wear clothes, lingerie, a bikini or just a towel if you like.
And no problem - no point doing an AMA if you're not going to answer the questions ay! 