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RogueFemale · 06/11/2026 00:30

@TransParentlyAnnoyed "I've been at lectures where cis men have been visibly aroused, and in secondary classes too. Every student found it hilarious, assuming he either didn't realise it was visible or was being pathetic (this was usually quite early in the morning.) Ditto cis female lecturers wearing black bras under white blouses and standing in front of a slide projector's light."

This sounds like a reader's letter to Men Only circa 1985.

MarcTheGenderSkeptic · 06/11/2026 01:35

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 05/11/2026 23:03

Of course it doesn't. I've been at lectures where cis men have been visibly aroused, and in secondary classes too. Every student found it hilarious, assuming he either didn't realise it was visible or was being pathetic (this was usually quite early in the morning.) Ditto cis female lecturers wearing black bras under white blouses and standing in front of a slide projector's light.

I had hoped we'd got past sexualising breasts and blaming their owners for other people's reactions to them.

Sex Matters were photographed yesterday wearing revealing swimming costumes in public, and no one thought they were being exhibitionists who were deliberately upsetting other people with their bodies.

While I detest everything those SM grifters stand for, I'll defend their choice to wear what they want in public to my last breath. No one should sexualise other people for their sartorial choices, or accuse them of provocation - that is rape myth. They weren't indecent, and neither is Rattley.

Sex Matters are grifters and Rattley isn't indecent, lol.
Wow, you never disappoint, and you're bang on impressive again.
Sex Matters are systematically challenging the "new normal" you and your clan would like to have been established with no dissent.
Those days are gone, the nihilism of the late 2010s will never be returned to.
As to Rattley not being indecent, you add to the littany of insanities you've already expressed on here, 5 years olds know their GI, breast binders for trans IDing girls should be encouraged.
What I admire about you is your absolute consistency, in the clown world you envisage women must accept, you're bringing the whole dang circus to town.
I actually respect you more than the so-called adults in charge, here those running academia, elsewhere those running the NHS, schools etc.
I don't believe a single faculty member or administrator at Oxford is comfortable with this aggressor doing what he's doing. But their chosen path means that they're more content lying to themselves and the students in their charge, plus female staff who have to liase with this specimen, than doing the right thing and instructing him to show respect to others.

GrumpyPanda · 06/11/2026 02:19

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 05/11/2026 23:03

Of course it doesn't. I've been at lectures where cis men have been visibly aroused, and in secondary classes too. Every student found it hilarious, assuming he either didn't realise it was visible or was being pathetic (this was usually quite early in the morning.) Ditto cis female lecturers wearing black bras under white blouses and standing in front of a slide projector's light.

I had hoped we'd got past sexualising breasts and blaming their owners for other people's reactions to them.

Sex Matters were photographed yesterday wearing revealing swimming costumes in public, and no one thought they were being exhibitionists who were deliberately upsetting other people with their bodies.

While I detest everything those SM grifters stand for, I'll defend their choice to wear what they want in public to my last breath. No one should sexualise other people for their sartorial choices, or accuse them of provocation - that is rape myth. They weren't indecent, and neither is Rattley.

I had hoped we'd got past sexualising breasts and blaming their owners for other people's reactions to them.

Boggles the mind how you can look at a picture of this specimen and not grasp that's it's precisely him and his ilk doing the sexualising. Speaking as somebody who's been cursed with actual boobs nearly the size of the stage equipment paraded around by this man in order to demean and humiliate women.

2021x · 06/11/2026 02:45

@TransParentlyAnnoyed
Of course it doesn't. I've been at lectures where cis men have been visibly aroused, and in secondary classes too. Every student found it hilarious, assuming he either didn't realise it was visible or was being pathetic (this was usually quite early in the morning.)

No, you didn't...

Igneococcus · 06/11/2026 06:55

I have given quite a few biochemistry lectures and lab classes in my life and I've not ever had a student who was visibly aroused. I might be a complete minger of course or maybe figuring out the finer details of enzyme kinetics takes up all the students' energy.

DramaAndBullshit · 06/11/2026 07:03

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 05/11/2026 23:03

Of course it doesn't. I've been at lectures where cis men have been visibly aroused, and in secondary classes too. Every student found it hilarious, assuming he either didn't realise it was visible or was being pathetic (this was usually quite early in the morning.) Ditto cis female lecturers wearing black bras under white blouses and standing in front of a slide projector's light.

I had hoped we'd got past sexualising breasts and blaming their owners for other people's reactions to them.

Sex Matters were photographed yesterday wearing revealing swimming costumes in public, and no one thought they were being exhibitionists who were deliberately upsetting other people with their bodies.

While I detest everything those SM grifters stand for, I'll defend their choice to wear what they want in public to my last breath. No one should sexualise other people for their sartorial choices, or accuse them of provocation - that is rape myth. They weren't indecent, and neither is Rattley.

The cognitive dissonance displayed by your posts genuinely makes me wonder if they are rage bait.

A black bra under a white top is not sexualising or fetishising. A male who gets an unexpected erection will tend to try to hide it, unless he’s enjoying the (possible) discomfort of those around him, in which case it’s a fetish.

I have larger than average breasts, if I turned up to work in that outfit with that much cleavage on show HR would tell me to cover up. Why is it ok for him?

borntobequiet · 06/11/2026 07:19

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 05/11/2026 23:03

Of course it doesn't. I've been at lectures where cis men have been visibly aroused, and in secondary classes too. Every student found it hilarious, assuming he either didn't realise it was visible or was being pathetic (this was usually quite early in the morning.) Ditto cis female lecturers wearing black bras under white blouses and standing in front of a slide projector's light.

I had hoped we'd got past sexualising breasts and blaming their owners for other people's reactions to them.

Sex Matters were photographed yesterday wearing revealing swimming costumes in public, and no one thought they were being exhibitionists who were deliberately upsetting other people with their bodies.

While I detest everything those SM grifters stand for, I'll defend their choice to wear what they want in public to my last breath. No one should sexualise other people for their sartorial choices, or accuse them of provocation - that is rape myth. They weren't indecent, and neither is Rattley.

No sane person would accuse Sex Matters of “provocation” by wearing swimming costumes for that photo, which says rather a lot about you.

Offherrockingchair · 06/11/2026 07:24

Would love to read the article. Behind a paywall sadly.

BlueLegume · 06/11/2026 07:41

2021x · 06/11/2026 02:45

@TransParentlyAnnoyed
Of course it doesn't. I've been at lectures where cis men have been visibly aroused, and in secondary classes too. Every student found it hilarious, assuming he either didn't realise it was visible or was being pathetic (this was usually quite early in the morning.)

No, you didn't...

@TransParentlyAnnoyed you never fail to be obsequious around any board about trans issues/Sex Matters/Possibly JKR as well.

Well done to @2021x for calling you out. I am mid 60s retired. I have never experienced aroused men in normal places and as for the black bra/white blouse scenario - are you really expecting us to listen to such carry on nonsense? As for finding it hilarious?

You are defending a man wearing fetish wear to teach students. Why?

ArabellaScott · 06/11/2026 07:42

To state the bleeding obvious: A woman with large breasts is not the same as a man wearing a pair of fake rubber breasts.

The outlandish size and the plunging necklines only underline the fact that he is clearly and obviously deliberately drawing attention to gain a reaction from others - this is clear exhibitionism.

On other threads, people are discussing why Russell Brand wore shirts open to nearly the waist. In itself wearing an unbuttoned shirt as he did is not wrong, but looking at his behaviour overall, it seems an obvious part of his predatory shtick.

Women must learn pattern recognition and not to make themselves stupid when it comes to recognising male behaviour and red flags. Its important, for our safety.

Even more so for the safety of young girls and women who are groomed to be compliant, polite, to second guess themselves, to doubt their own natural caution and instinctively responses.

Obviously this man is driven by sexual impulses. He is Obvious McObviousface.

The fact that there is any hesitation at all to say so is quite serious indication of how badly this stupid ideology fails young women.

Many of us see clearly how gender provides cover for men's movement. This kind of story illustrates it plainly.

I suppose in one sense it may be helpful for Operation Sunlight, but by fuck its depressing.

Igneococcus · 06/11/2026 07:42

Offherrockingchair · 06/11/2026 07:24

Would love to read the article. Behind a paywall sadly.

There's an archive link in the OP.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 06/11/2026 07:44

@TransParentlyAnnoyed why do you think this man, who does not say he is a trans-woman as far as I can see, wears the massive huge plastic breasts?

Seymour5 · 06/11/2026 07:51

I wonder what his mum thinks of his choice to dress up like Cupid Stunt?

ElectricThrowAddict · 06/11/2026 07:53

RogueFemale · 06/11/2026 00:30

@TransParentlyAnnoyed "I've been at lectures where cis men have been visibly aroused, and in secondary classes too. Every student found it hilarious, assuming he either didn't realise it was visible or was being pathetic (this was usually quite early in the morning.) Ditto cis female lecturers wearing black bras under white blouses and standing in front of a slide projector's light."

This sounds like a reader's letter to Men Only circa 1985.

TPA coming across as even weirder and unhinged than usual!

ReTerf · 06/11/2026 08:19

Igneococcus · 06/11/2026 07:42

There's an archive link in the OP.

Unfortunately the archive link isn’t working for me. Thank you, though @Dinnerontheterrace

nutmeg7 · 06/11/2026 08:32

RogueFemale · 06/11/2026 00:30

@TransParentlyAnnoyed "I've been at lectures where cis men have been visibly aroused, and in secondary classes too. Every student found it hilarious, assuming he either didn't realise it was visible or was being pathetic (this was usually quite early in the morning.) Ditto cis female lecturers wearing black bras under white blouses and standing in front of a slide projector's light."

This sounds like a reader's letter to Men Only circa 1985.

Doesn’t it just?

borntobequiet · 06/11/2026 08:38

ElectricThrowAddict · 06/11/2026 07:53

TPA coming across as even weirder and unhinged than usual!

The latest logic seems to be that women being women means that men can be women too.

Comtesse · 06/11/2026 08:38

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 05/11/2026 23:03

Of course it doesn't. I've been at lectures where cis men have been visibly aroused, and in secondary classes too. Every student found it hilarious, assuming he either didn't realise it was visible or was being pathetic (this was usually quite early in the morning.) Ditto cis female lecturers wearing black bras under white blouses and standing in front of a slide projector's light.

I had hoped we'd got past sexualising breasts and blaming their owners for other people's reactions to them.

Sex Matters were photographed yesterday wearing revealing swimming costumes in public, and no one thought they were being exhibitionists who were deliberately upsetting other people with their bodies.

While I detest everything those SM grifters stand for, I'll defend their choice to wear what they want in public to my last breath. No one should sexualise other people for their sartorial choices, or accuse them of provocation - that is rape myth. They weren't indecent, and neither is Rattley.

He’s supposed to be at work. He thinks it is appropriate to post on LinkedIn. Would your employer be ok with you dressing like that and posting the results online? I cannot think of a reputable employer that would be ok with this. It’s creepy and weird and bringing both the college and the university into disrepute.

Dinnerontheterrace · 06/11/2026 08:45

These “debates” have been going on for at least a decade. I feel the whole circus would not have started had the media published pictures like the one in this article from the start.

There was so much fear about hate speech and bigotry that the general public were completely confused because nothing was clear.

See the pictures, and what is going on is clear as a bell.

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Dollymylove · 06/11/2026 08:52

Seymour5 · 06/11/2026 07:51

I wonder what his mum thinks of his choice to dress up like Cupid Stunt?

At least Ms Stunt was funny 😂😍

heathspeedwell · 06/11/2026 08:55

@Offherrockingchair these two paragraphs should give you a flavour. It's an absolutely brilliant article.

"Many men fantasise about big boobs. Among such unfortunates are a sub-group who have what is technically known as an autogynephilic desire to own a pair of such bazookas themselves, at least on special occasions. Earlier this year the American public got a good laugh out of the suggestion that the husband of the former Homeland Security secretary Kristi Noem has a thing for huge fake breasts (not his wife’s, one should note). In private Mr Noem is said to find nothing more restful than to put on a pair and chat with other members of the ‘bimbofication’ fetish community.
Yet the key word there is ‘private’. Mr Noem did not seek to attend public events with his prosthetic rack on.

Personally I am not surprised Rattley should have got away with parading his pair at an Oxford college. That is because our places of higher learning have become the places on Earth least likely to have someone say: ‘Excuse me, but I think that might be a matter for the privacy of your own home.’ People like Rattley try their luck among the most tolerant people on Earth in the hope that tolerance will be endless. And in some places it is. But then the rest of the world discovers what is going on and starts to put its foot down. Not for the first time that will often happen when an unsuspecting teenager turns up for a university interview only to discover that their attention is being diverted by the plunging neckline of a balding ginger wizard. The student is effectively being dared to say ‘I find this strange’, get labelled a bigot, and then have various actresses called ‘Emma’ lead a demented public stampede against them."

MarcTheGenderSkeptic · 06/11/2026 08:56

TransParentlyObvious comments are textbook #LetThemSpeak

MagpiePi · 06/11/2026 09:01

nutmeg7 · 05/11/2026 21:35

This is an archive link from another poster that works for me

Delphin · 06/11/2026 09:03

Manteiga · 05/11/2026 20:39

"His dress code is the equivalent of a female lecturer who would like to pass as a man turning up to conduct an Oxbridge interview in a three-piece tweed suit with a giant horse-dildo strapped up front."

😂

That is along the lines of my earlier proposal on the first thread, I think. All the women in his class should buy two walnuts and a mini cucumber and wear them on a string over their clothers, appropriately positioned. 😈

ArabellaScott · 06/11/2026 09:04

Maybe a pair of beachballs and a pool noodle.