I’ve name changed for this post but do frequent these threads non incognito too.
I know how difficult it is to speak up in these types of situations. I didn’t and I was in a senior position but I was gripped by fear and still feel bad about it now.
in my situation a TW colleague in a professional setting would wear fully sheer tops revealing bra and (not at same time) skin tight leathery/rubbery (not full rubber but a sort of cheap leather look iykwim) skirts that were clearly worn to highlight penis.
i knew i should have said something, but i just couldn’t.
As it turned out I was on the receiving end of their ire for something else so my fear wasn’t entirely misplaced but I do regret not calling out the inappropriateness of those clothing choices in those settings
As an aside, so much happens in TPA world that just never seems to happen to anyone else - early morning lectures with erections, 2 gay reachers walking alongside pupil in school corridors to keep them safe…