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Another Pelicot in Manchester

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Shmoigel · 14/09/2026 19:44

https://news.sky.com/story/husband-admits-drugging-wife-to-rape-and-sexually-abuse-her-over-20-years-13585745

I weep for this poor woman.

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Waitingfordoggo · 16/09/2026 18:36

moto748e · 16/09/2026 18:34

And what does that mean? The husband will be tried separately? Or not at all?

I think he doesn’t have a trial because he has pleaded guilty, so they can go straight to sentencing because no one has to ‘try’ the evidence.

IwantToRetire · 16/09/2026 18:44

Not wanting to sound to school teacher, but if you look there is a link to a news paper article!

All is explained there.

And better if you do want to then respond would be better to be based on the article - not my take on the article!

Waitingfordoggo · 16/09/2026 18:56

If there was an explanation in the article I missed it @IwantToRetire . The judge told the court that the husband was not going to be in the trial, but didn’t actually say why. I assume as you shared the article you probably understood it better than I did!

IwantToRetire · 16/09/2026 19:00

The court has heard the husband, who cannot be named to protect his wife's legal right to anonymity, has admitted abusing his wife since 2004.

He had already pleaded guilty to 15 offences against her going back to 2022, but admitted to a further 45 counts on Monday.

The judge explained to the Jury: the man who pleaded guilty was [the husband], so he will no longer be a defendant in this case.

Edited to add

I assumed this means that he will be sentenced when, if any of the other men are convicted.

I like the way the BBC has named all the other men, but on the other hand as the husband hasn't been named to allow the women to remain anonymous I hope this list of names doesn't impinge on her privacy.

IwantToRetire · 16/09/2026 19:49

Just came back to say I had forgotten this is a new thread rather than continuing the existing thread, when this story first came into the news.

In that it was mentioned that in fact one of the accused men did plead guilty from the start and there was mention that he wouldn't be sentenced until the court case was concluded.

This is a few months ago, and then recently it seemed that the UK press wasn't reporting this case, but later it was just said the start had been delayed presumably because at the last moment the husband pleased guilty.

We really need some sort of indexing system on FWR!

ArabellaScott · 16/09/2026 21:42

Maybe a sort of MN librarian.

What a terrifying thought.

IwantToRetire · 16/09/2026 21:48

ArabellaScott · 16/09/2026 21:42

Maybe a sort of MN librarian.

What a terrifying thought.

Well I think for an actual human, or woman librarian this might be a task so fraught no one would take it on.

But maybe MNHQ, instead of the silly we need to write your post headlines for you, could at least do something with AI to produce an index.

But then it would to be trained in FWR language and euphemisms.

Hmm
moto748e · 16/09/2026 22:24

Heh! I've just started reading a novella which takes as its theme the Jorge Luis Borges story, The Library of Babel. I read that, but it must be fifty years ago now. But I'd see a MN library in much the same light!

Lentilcakes · 16/09/2026 22:43

Horrific. And these are the men that have been caught.

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